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Is My Hair Even Wavy or Curly… or Is It Just Frizzy?

by HEATHER K in Curly Girl Method Club® Curly + Wavy Blog

Be honest... have you ever stood in the mirror, grabbed a handful of your hair, and said —“Is this a curl? A wave? Or just one big cloud of chaos?” 😅

If you have, same.
That question is literally why CGMC® exists.

I used to think my hair was just frizzy, messy, unruly. Nothing more.
Not curly. Not wavy. Just hard to deal with.

But here’s what no one told me — and maybe no one’s told you either:
Frizz is a strand of hair that's not hanging out with its mates.
Not clumping. Not waving. Not ringleting.
Just out there solo… trying its best, but not quite getting the group memo.

Let’s unpack this…

If your hair:

  • Goes poof in the rain

  • Never dries smooth without a straightener

  • Looks like it wants to do something... but then doesn’t

  • Gets big when you brush it

  • Has random bends or loops in places

Then your hair is not straight.  It IS wavy or curly or inbetween wurly. 

Here’s what I’d tell you if you messaged me asking this:

➡️ Try co-washing.
➡️ Use a leave-in that doesn’t weigh you down or coat your hair (ours only has what waves + curls like).
➡️ Style on soaking wet hair.
➡️ Don’t detangle when dry.

Not sure where to start?

That’s literally why I made the Quiz: What Will Work for My Waves + Curls?

It’s free, it’s 60 seconds, and it’ll tell you what steps your hair needs — and what to skip.

Or you can go all in and grab a Starter Kit. It’s got the products and tutorials that walk you through it all.

Because if your hair’s secretly curly or wavy, it’s going to show up fast —
Once you stop stripping it and start giving it the care it’s quietly been asking for.

Frizz isn’t the enemy. It’s a clue.

It means your hair’s trying — and it just needs a little help getting there.
You're not mad for thinking your hair might be textured.I can't wait to seee where your journey takes you!

If your hair is not straight it is wavy, curly, wurly, coily after all 😉

Stay Curly,

 

Heather x

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